My kids will be vaccinated. We live in a town that was a part of the vaccine trial, we know a few family's who participated and they have not had any complications. This vaccine is very similar to seasonal vaccine, it's just not a bunch of strains, just one. You can still ask for the Thermasol free.
We always get the flu vaccine, not just to keep our own family from getting ill, but to help stop transmission to those who can not (and are often at a higher risk) The flu may be just an inconvenience to many of us, but to the two week old baby you held at church? it could be the worst thing that ever happened to their family. Especially considering people are often contagious before they have symptoms.
At two weeks my son was rushed to a hospital hours from our home barely breathing because of RSV virus, to us the virus felt no different than a common cold. He was in the PICU for a week. If there was a vaccine for that, we would get it too.