FitDay points out something important: While there is no correct answer about calories, fat, sodium, etc., there are a few things that are unquestionably helpful if you're trying to gain control over any aspect of diet: Journaling, for example. Lots of folks are successful without journaling what they eat, but there are very few people who have been more successul without journaling than they were with journaling, all other factors held constant. In a nutshell, for many things, what is truly known is that numbers for micro- and macro-nutrients is only part of the story: Diet control is all about establishing healthy behaviors.
Of course, we don't know why you're looking for the information you're asking for, so it's not clear that's relevant to your situation...