I was invited to a party for someone(19 yr old) going away to bootcamp. We are related but i've never met him. I just was reunited with this part of the family. What gift do i buy? I was thinking a giftcard(target or wal-mart) so he can buy a few things he will need for bootcamp but I dunno ? Any advice? I have another questions at this same party they were going to be celebrating 2 other people's Bday but i got notice they added another person so its now 3 bdays and 1 going away. I only know one of the people having a bday so Do i buy a gift for each or just the one i know. This party might turnout to be to expesive to go to if i need to buy 4 gifts-lol!