Ergens2, it's really a matter of personal choice. A few of the reasons that I like the main building is the ability to request a castle view room and closeness to the monorail. I also like the lounge setup better in the main building. It's larger and more spread out, with plenty of seating, 2 TV's and a more open, brighter feel. There are large windows that overlook the courtyard area and the interior balcony overlooks the main lobby. The concierge staff sits on the 3rd floor, while the lounge is located on the 4th. There is also a good sized balcony on the 3rd floor, which is seldom used by anyone. I've also spoken to a lot of DIS'ers who prefer the coziness of the lodge.
Christine, that's very cool about your son. We're an "ice" family. DH and I love hockey and my kids all figure skate. I see your DS is in the same boat as my daughter, the under 21 crowd. Her group of friends do a lot of bowling, shooting pool and shopping. I don't know if she's familiar at all with the area south of Boston. I think most places they go to are closer to our area. I'm glad you like Boston. We take the drive in daily for skating and at least once a month, we head in for some sightseeing.
Tammi