We found this house about two months ago. We already had preapproval. So why do the closing costs keep rising? We told them. We have x amt of dollars. Is this ok? They said yep. More than enough. Well we are supposed to close on Monday and magically our amt has grown over two thousand dollars. They said "you have the money". Yeah we do, in retirement! It's not that easy to just get in cash by Monday, we both work! I am sooo angry I am crying. If we have to forfeit our three thousand we already paid I will be so angry. We have rented so long to save for this. My husband is mad and yelling at the kids, the kids are upset because in an effort to last min save we told them family night will be at home tonight, I am crying because I am emotional and pregnant. The mortgage guy actually suggested I call family members for money. We have an emergency fund but it was already dangerously low due to some unforseen expenses. I am so upset. I am glad our kids Christmas is done. I just wish this was over.