I have happened to be at both, at DL, not on purpose. I did not think they were a problem, crowd wise. And, both were pretty fun to see, actually. Lots of people having loads of fun. the Dapper folks looked so great, we were at VGC so we saw lots of them getting ready, etc. at the GC. For the Gay Days, we saw the suggested schedule and went to the opposite park, to try and avoid some of the crowds/lines. (but this group goes to both parks of course).