I completely understand as I am a huge planner and planning nights will be important at Aulani because of the lack of dinner reservations at the last minute. I have managed to get a day by day plan together for our May trip although I know I might have to do some rearranging as I was planning off of September's Daily Ewas which can be found here:
http://www.wdwinfo.com/disney-resorts/aulani-hawaii-resort/#iwa
All the excursion info can be found on the Aulani site:
http://aulaniexcursions.resorts.disney.go.com/
Granted, there are not a lot of reviews yet hardly anywhere although there are pictures of the Catamaran excursion here:
http://photopost.wdwinfo.com/g1358-exclusive-aulani-excursions.html
We compared the Catamaran excursion with the Hoku Nai'a Dolphin Watch SNORKEL Lunch Special with Transportation from Aulani which can be found here:
http://aulaniexcursions.resorts.disney.go.com/ You can also Google Hoku Nai'a and read reviews on Trip Advisor.
I think we are going to book the Adventures by Disney Catamaran Excursion although it was a tough choice because they both look great.
Another excursion we are booking is the Polynesian Cultural Center Ambassador Dinner Show which includes the Breath of Life evening show and a partial island tour and transportation from Aulani.
We will also rent a car from the on site Alamo desk once during our trip for Horseback riding (my daughter isn't quite 10 so we had no options through Aulani) and Pearl Harbor. We will rent a car on our last day as well to get us back to the airport but since we have a late flight we'll hike diamond head in the morning and tour the lower east side of hte island before heading back to the airport.
We have decided on a schedule of one resort day, one island day during our 9 day stay.
I hope that gives you more planning info. I was super frustrated at first but it's coming together now. I think a huge source of frustration for me is that most of the information on this site for Aulani is from the
DVC side. I think that is because all posts about Aulani either start there or get moved there by moderators. There are plenty of us planning hotel visits and the planning is so different. There are two main differences: transportation and dining.
I refuse to pay $315 just to park a rental car just on principal. With our mix of car rentals from Aulani and excursions with transportation we can see the island without renting a car the entire trip. It takes a lot of planning though!
Second dining is so different. We will not cook and that is just so different than the trip reports I have read here. I have a decent plan though that will allow a mix of every dining option at Aulani at least once, some dining venues across the street and some offsite on our Island exploration days.
The last piece of trip planning advice I have is to listen to all the podcasts from this site on Aulani. There are about five different ones and they live on my iPhone. I will re-listen to them at different stages of my planning and I get different details each time.
Have fun and feel free to ask any questions!