Honey child, I am in North Carolina and was raised by a Virginian who grew and froze her own crop of butter beans yearly so we could be sure to have them on Christmas Day

Nothin' but Southern here!!! We can't abide mushy beans, though, so I only cook them until they are done, if that makes sense. There's a sweet spot between crunchy and mushy - experiment until you find the texture your family likes.
Oh, for the days of bacon grease - my mom kept a crock of it in the fridge at all times. I don't cook with it much anymore but every now and then I go somewhere and have a helping or two from a big pot of green beans cooked with bacon fat or a ham hock and I am in heaven

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