We just got back from the 1/8 Eastern- I was expecting to have 1 semi formal nite, 1 formal nite, and Palo's-don't know if it was just the week that we went or not, but we had 2 semi formal nites instead- and Palo's has a sign up saying that jackets are "suggested" - (i.e. not required)
I know that lots of people have written upon return that next time they will not pack as many clothes- I will add that next time we won't pack as many dressy clothes- for example, I had packed button down resort casual shirts (you know, "island" style) for my husband to wear during the day w/his shorts, but we saw lots of men w/ decent looking t-shirts or polo style shirts-
it would of saved some ironing and folding "just right" if we didn't have to bring them, plus I wouldn't of had to hear him whine about wearing the nice shirts-
Even on the semi formal nites as well as at Palo's , we saw alot of people dressed more casually than I had expected-
CathyM.