This is going to sound really really bad. But I would be heart broken to give up our Friday night rum and cokes and a movie. DS is 14, has Asperger's and is homeschooled/virtual school combo. DD is 8 months. I am home all week, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with the kids. Friday is pizza and movie night. We rent movies from the Red Box (for a dollar each!). After the kids are in bed, we have a rum and coke and practically ignore the grown up movie we rented for us. We talk, giggle, found out he can juggle (was playing with DD's ball pit balls) and all sorts of other stuff. But mostly we connect. This is OUR time and is beyond special. It is what keeps me sane. Some people have wine with dinner. We have rum and coke with a movie. It works for us. Other than that we have cut out most of our extras. My cell phone is going in a couple of weeks and I will go to a prepaid. No house phone. Spend only about $350 a month on groceries for 3 adults, one teen, and the baby.