For Ashley, a cautionary tale about trampolines

Deb in IA

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On an earlier thread http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=931585&page=1 after I posted some statistics on trampoline-related injuries, I apparently incurred the unbridled wrath of trampoline fans. Let's see, I was accused of poor taste, being rude, catty, condescending, and my personal favorite, having poop in my Cheerios and PMS'ing (Sorry, hemispheredancer, but I don't eat Cheerios and my period ended last week. ;) )

Some people get so defensive about STATISTICS . . . :confused3

Anyway, I make NO apologies. In fact, anytime I see a thread about trampolines (or, as I like to call them, ER-income-generators), I WILL continue to post my numbers on trampoline injuries and recommendation from the American Academy of Pediatrics regarding the ban of all home trampolines.

Because I made a promise to Ashley's parents.


It was on an early winter evening, now almost 20 years ago, although I remember it as if it were yesterday. I was the senior resident on duty in the Pediatric Intensive Care unit. The ER calls and says that very critcal case was being stabilized and sent up. 5 year old girl, traumatic brain injury. Neurosurgery involved.

And that's how I met Ashley (not her real name). When she got to the ICU, she was already intubated and comatose. Earlier that afternoon, she was outside, playing on her family's trampoline, before the sun went down. She lost her footing, and fell backward off the trampoline, hitting her head on a stone border around a flower bed. Her skull shattered like an eggshell, and her brain was bleeding and swelling uncontrollably. Despite maximal hyperventilation, mannitol, ventricular drains, multiple rounds of epinephine and bicarbonate, we could not keep her alive. Let me assure you folks, this is NOTHING like what you see on TV, on ER. It is horrible, it is the worst thing to be doing everything and anything you can, and see a life just slipping away . . .

I had to tell her shell-shocked parents that their beautiful daughter, who, just 2 hours earlier was energetic and full of life, was dead.

It was an experience I NEVER want to go through again.

After her parents had spent some time by her bedside, the nurse told me that Ashley's dad wanted to say something to me. I went over to them, and he said, "Doctor? Could you do us a favor? Could you please tell everyone how dangerous trampolines can be? Maybe that will save another family from going through what happened to us . . ."

Of course, I said yes.

So I don't really care about all the name-calling and insults that have been slung at me recently. Because I made a promise to Ashley, and to her parents.

And I WILL keep that promise.
 
Deb, I totally agree with you.

I am a physical therapist and have 2 older teens. I was the unpopular mom that told my kids in no uncertain terms that they were not allowed on their friends' trampolines. And I made sure the parents knew I didn't want my kids on the trampolines. I feel they are totally unsafe and agree with your veiwpoint.

Oh, and you are braver than I was. I was afraid to post on the first thread.
 
Deb, you are a brave soul! :teeth: People don't like to look at statistics, or admit their logic is off-kilter.

I can't imagine losing a child. Or telling a parent they lost their child. Take care, and zip the flame suit up high!

Michelle
 
I get mean Mom award for not getting a trampoline. My kids have begged for years and I won't do it. I too know someone's child who died from one that had the net around it, it was suppose to be so safe.

Keep it up!!!
 

:sad1: Unfortunately it is the parents that most need to hear this, that won't bother to listen.
Thank you, Deb.
 
Well done Deb, if you have warned just ONE parent not to buy one you've done an excellent job, I think people took you just trying to give good advice a little too far. There may be people out there that aren't aware of the dangers and to those that are aware well they should just be thankful that they can obviously keep an eye on their own kids before someone like you has to do that for them.
 
I agree. I would never buy one. Not worth the chance. Thanks for posting. You just might have saved someone.
 
We are also the "uncool" and "uptight" parents on our block because we don't allow our kids to jump on trampolines. Our neighbors had one with a net, but it's now gone, something must have happened. :confused3
 
While I agree that your story is tragic and I feel so bad for the family, the problem you encountered on the other thread is that you tried to hijack the OP's thread and continued to argue when she requested that you no longer post on that thread.

Many children hurt themselves or die every day; on bikes, in swimming pools, on playground equipment, playing sporting events, etc. It is all tragic and if it happened to my child I would be distraught. I would probably preach about the dangers of anything that harmed by child, but if the person emphatically told me that I was crossing the line and that they were not interested in my opinion, I would back off. I think that was your problem in the other thread and I still feel that you were condescending on the other post. I will now leave YOUR thread.
 
How sad!

I also think it's important not to put any playground equipment close to anything concrete, stone or brick. There's lots of different warnings in this tragedy.
 
Last summer I almost broke my back on a trampoline literally. After the ambulance ride and the x-rays it was discovered that I had torn all of the muscules that connect to my spine, 19 of them I believe. I still am in pain today a year and a half later. then nkn0own to my cousin this past summer her daughter went to a friends house and went on one. She broke her arm. I fully support you. They are death traps.
 
I would never get one either. I do think they are dangerous. Sure lots of kids jump and never get injured but there is always one who will be injured, I never wanted that 1 to my child.
 
ITA that trampolines are nothing more than an open invitation to injury. Better that my kids stay away from them than require a trip to the ER because of some "fun."

Bravo, Deb!
 
I agree that kids can get hurt in so many ways that we can't control, but some activities cause worse injuries more frequently. Like trampolines, and skateboards.

TMM, I have always wondered about the net thing too, and how it changes the numbers.
 
Thank you so much for posting this. I also feel that trampolines have the potential to be very dangerous.

My friend's little brother also died as a result of hitting an object when he lost control and jumped off of the trampoline. I was in 8th grade at the time and I still remember hearing about it like it was yesterday.

BTW, your trampoline can be in the middle of a field with no objects around to hit - the ground is enough to cause serious injury if a child loses control and goes off the side.
 
I am in no way meaning to make light of what happened to "Ashley" and others. And I am not meaning to flame anyone. I just feel like these are accidents and accidents happen. I do think they should be used safely. My parents have a trampoline at their house and the kids are not allowed on it unless an adult is standing right there w/ them. Kids are dangerous by themselves. Just last night DS5 had climbed up on the bathroom vanity and was brushing his teeth and dancing! :earseek: DH and I were in the next room! I didn't read the other thread, but I just felt like I needed to express that there are so many things that are potentially a danger, especially to kids, but you can't do away w/ and ban all potential dangers.

I had a neighbor boy that I used to babysit get his neck caught in a hamock at his house. He died from that. However tragic that is, I don't feel like it warrents the banning of hamocks.

JMHO!
 
The Mystery Machine said:
What about using those fence things around them? It looks like that might help, right?
Perhaps in "Ashley"'s case it may have. But we have a friend who's an orthopedic surgeon and another that's a radiologist. Neither of them will allow their children on them because of what they've seen, nets or not. The radiologist has worked at two hospitals where the patients are flown because they need more care than the local hospital is able to provide. In other words, MAJOR trauma.
 
Oh, and I am an adult (30) and not a very crazy one when it comes to unsafe things. It was an accident and they can happen anywhere, however they do happen more it seems on trampolines
 


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