Bring a stroller to get around the airport and then gate check it when boarding. Also let him "run" around at the gate to burn off some energy. Our son usually slept on flights after letting him walk through the airport. Bring a snack and a sippy cup which should be full for take off and landings. Have him drink during this time as it will help relieve ear pressure. Grab a pillow and blanket as soon as you board in case he does go to sleep. Toys are also good, but ones that dont make a lot of noise or have a million pieces that can be dropped and lost. We have a portable dvd player which is a Godsend for long drives and flying. Plus we can use it in the room / cabin so our son can watch his favorite shows. During flights, the only time you cant have it on is during take off and landings, as with all electronic devices.
As for the parks, be sure to bring a hat for your son and lather on the sunscreen. Bring the stroller (mark it with something bright and easily noctiable-I have a blue umbrella stroller so I got a bright yellow bandana, ironed on letters spelling out our last name, and pinned it to the top of the sunshade. When I parked it, I made sure the shade was up so when looking for it in a sea of strollers it was very easy to spot). Dont leave valuables or souvenirs (you can have these delivered to your onsite resort or pick up upon leaving the park) in the stroller. I left jackets and diapers with no problem. Also bring along any supplies, water, and a snack. When standing in line, you will not be able to take your stroller so bring some small toys/bubbles to occupy your son. Our son wanted to bolt out of line, but I rigged up a child's fanny pack and a leash off a harness. This way he could carry his own snacks, and I could control him. When we took pictures or didnt use the leash, I just tucked it in the back of his shirt. No harness to see in any pictures! If staying on site, it might be a good idea to head back to the resort for a break (nap, lunch, swim). If not, find a nice quiet shady spot in the park and let your son nap. You will be thankful later on in the day. My then 23 month old was spooked by the 3d movies and Haunted Mansion. If you want to try them, sit near an exit in case you need to leave. In regards to the characters-my son was scared of Santa this last time so I knew the characters would be a problem. I got the free dvd planning kit and some of the Sing Along Disney videos (not cartoons but the real characters interacting with kids in the parks). My son was hesitant to approach any character that wasnt in the videos, but did fine with the others. We saved Chef Mickeys for checkout morning so by then he was already comfortable with the characters and we had a blast! Be sure to ride up front in the monorail (have to ask -max 4 people) and ask for a copilots license (and co engineer license on the train). They make great souvenirs! Have a great time and take lots of pictures! My son loves to look at the ones from our trip and is already getting excited to go back in January!
alison
