TXAKDisneyFan
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I'm average size (within "healthy" BMI). Therefore, I've never had anyone make any rude comments about me being overweight. I do have larger family members though, and I have heard complete strangers make horrific comments about/to them. More people than you'd think will make inappropriate comments to complete strangers. (I'm somewhat racially ambiguous, and when I lived in Boston I *regularly* (as in every day or every other day) complete strangers would come up to me and ask "what are you?")Are you guys sure that people are actually making comments about you (or others) trying out the seat? Perhaps they were laughing at something else, and because you are already self conscious, you just assumed it was you? I've done that before.
I just have never seen strangers (adults) just outright making fun of other strangers, at a family place no less, unless they were really drunk. I live in a big city, take public transportation twice a day, see people of all shapes and sizes, have people I care about who are all shapes and sizes. Everywhere we go (like parks, zoos, shopping, etc.) is crowded. I have seen fights or skirmishes between people (not often), but not just people making fun of random people out loud for them to hear.
Now I've heard men make vulgar comments about me (or others, even to my mom) in front of strangers, so I understand that it's embarrassing, but somehow they thought they were being complimentary. But this sounds like people being cruel for sport. Were they kids/teenagers who don't know better?
I can only assume the people who are doing this aren't used to seeing all types of people?![]()
If I were overweight, I wouldn't want anyone to see me try out a test seat, and I'd be mortified if a CM asked me to try one out. I think there should be a way to put the test seats in discrete locations but where people can still find them easily.