Agree with poster #2 about The Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World.
Once you get an overview of the rides your family might like from the Unofficial Guide, here's my suggestions, which worked well for a friend of mine:
Since you have a large group, I recommend at least 5 days (1 day for each park, except allow 2 days for Magic Kingdom).
For Magic Kingdom I usually visit the "right half" (Fantasyland, Tomorrowland) on one day, and the "left half" (Adventureland, Frontierland, Liberty Square) the other day. That way you get a break in the afternoon (for rest or hotel pool time). Plan on returing on one evening for the parade and fireworks.
For Hollywood Studios, it's worth it to get the Fantasmic Dinner Package, which gets you preferred seating at the evening Fantasmic show. You can reserve this on the Disney site (
Dining section). If you get can Mama Melrose's for lunch, it's the best value of the Dinner Package restaurants, and the food is very good.
There's a website called RideMax.com which is excellent for planning your vacation, and you can put in breaks as needed. $17, but compare that to the cost of standing in line for 8 people (and the cost of their tickets!). It will save you hours standing in line.
In a nutshell:
1. Set up your My Disney Experience (
MDE) account
here.
2. Buy your tickets (if you haven't already)
online. 5-day tickets should be fine for your group no need for embellishments like Park Hopper or waterparks.
3. Link the tickets (to the people in your group) in your MDE account
4. Use easywdw.com or RideMax.com to select which days/which parks. Crowd levels will have a huge level on the enjoyment of your visit.
5. Get the Fantasmic Dinner Package for your Hollywood Studios day.
6. Use
mesaboy's list to select your 3 FastPass attractions.
7. Select the rides for each park in RideMax, to generate the touring plans, including FP times.
8. Go to MDE to select the FPs and times for the people in your group, based on the FP times in the RideMax schedule.
Sounds like a lot of planning, but really it only takes about 2 hours (plus the time reading the Unofficial Guide), and will save you lots of time in line, and you'll get to see the rides you want to see, without a lot of backtracking.
Feel free to PM me if you have questions.