Finally checking in--it's been tough

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Wilgus had his embolization on 12/14. It was very painful (they couldn't put him to sleep during the procedure and he was in pain for 3 hours) then after the procedure he was REALLY in pain. They gave him morphine and it only made him throw up. He went without anything for pain for over 12 hours until I took the nurse and told her it had to change and they changed him from morphine to Dilaudid. That helped him. I spent 24 hours a day with him from the time of the embolization until they took him into surgery on Friday to remove the kidney.

He had 3 surgical teams. One to remove the kidney, one to remove the tumor from the vena cavae (which, unfortunately had invaded the wall of that artery so they had to remove a section) and one team to keep his liver functioning while they worked on the vena cavae. They gave him 20 units of blood during the surgery.

The surgery was more than 6 hours. They told me that they were going to keep him in a chemically induced coma for 2 days. I went to my hotel to rest, no sleep for 48 hours is wearing. The ICU nurse decided he needed to wake up. So he woke up with his sister only. I was not there. I am a terrible wife :(

He did so well, the doctors were so impressed. They said he was in the 95th percentile for recovery. UNTIL today. He has developed deep vein thromboses in his thighs. This is NOT good. So, he is back on total bed rest, no more walking. That's a step backwards but he is going to be fine, he has to be fine. They wanted to do a procedure to place a "filter" in his vena cavae but it is too dangerous right now because of the sutures in his vena cavae.

His mother and sister have returned to Houston (Thank God) but so has my sister--I wish she was still with me. I am alone now.

Thank you for your good thoughts and prayers. They worked. Bless you all.

Katholyn
 
good thoughts coming your way,hang in there!! :grouphug:
 
What a tough time...
Here's to better days ahead!

One step forward, two steps back is often the way it goes...you must both be exhausted. :grouphug:
 

Katholyn,

I will be praying for you both. My thoughts are with you through this horrible ordeal. You are a good and loyal wife. You need some sleep to be able to take care of your husband. many hugs sent your way.

Brenda
 
Buckalew11 said:
Katholyn,

I will be praying for you both. My thoughts are with you through this horrible ordeal. You are a good and loyal wife. You need some sleep to be able to take care of your husband. many hugs sent your way.

Brenda

I so agree with this. Kath, if you make yourself sick and get too worn down you will be no good to him, you need to take of yourself too. A big hug for you. And prayers for DH.
 
Kath,

You are not alone. We are all here for you and we are there in our thoughts and prayers!
 
:grouphug:
Our prayers for his speedy & complete recovery & your spirit & health, also.
Please try to take care of yourself, too. With everything happening I know that it'll be difficult to do right now-

Jean, Christopher & Patrick
 
Oh Katholyn,

Prayers, {{HUGS}} and :wizard: for you and Wilgus during this most difficult time.

Please keep us posted, but get some rest as well.
 
Tons of hugs and prayers still going out for you Katholyn. You aren't a bad wife........made me giggle there with the thought of you even THINKING that.
Two steps forward and one step back........that's so very very normal I should think.
Will continue with the prayers for you both. Keep as rested as you can...
 
Katholyn, please know that my prayers are with you and your dh. I will continue to pray for him during his recovery. Best wishes for a fast and full recovery.
 
Katholyn, sounds like you both have really been through the ringer! I am continuing to keep you both in my thoughts and prayers, hang in there, try to take care of yourself (this must be so overwhelming and stressful for you!)...and God Bless.
 
Gosh, I'm sorry you're both going through all of this. Take care of yourself so you can take care of him. I hope the worst is over and uphill is your direction from now on. He sounds like a strong man. Sending you peaceful thoughts and prayers. You are a wonderful wife!
 
You and your husband are in my prayers. Keep the faith that all will be well, and try to remember that so many of us here are sending you much love. :grouphug:
 
You are not a horrible wife...if you had of thought for one min, they would wake him early you would have been there,,you needed rest after 48 hours,,as others have said, you would have been no good to anyone..all worn out...my prayers will be with you everyday..for a fast and full recovery for your husband,,,

God Bless you
Linda--Tink
 
:grouphug: Kath positive thoughts and prayers for you and DH. Best wishes for a speedy recovery! :goodvibes
 
God bless you both. I am hoping for a swift and total recovery. Get some rest yourself. Merry Christmas! :grouphug:
 
Prayers and good wishes for your husband, you, and your entire family
:hug:
 


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