lol pretty sure Hilton-branded hotels are ones people want to stay at. I'm sure there's other well-known brands too.
Fees don't equate to desirability nor security in a hotel not by a long shot.
Parking fees tend to be tied to location specific in terms of the exact hotel. You can find one location charge it of the same exact hotel brand and another location not charge it.
Resort fees I've found are a toss up but I tend to stay at places that don't charge them unless it's absolutely necessary.
You may need to branch out in terms of your hotel stays if this is your viewpoint on fees