I completely regretted the trip I took with my husband's extended family.
They "want to be with the children, see them at Disney" so we reluctantly agreed to go all together.
Nope, no time spent with the children, just us helping them (get our supper , we're tired comes to mind!) It got to the point I just wanted to go home.
We have never gone with anyone other than our immediate family since.
I can relate.... I don't actually
regret the trip, but I definetly will never do that again... We had a huge family reunion at DLR and I ended up being the one to do all the planning and no one was happy, except for my family.

Almost all of our relatives live in CA and have annual passes and go ALL the time...we are the ones from out of state. My kids were just happy to be there!
That was an interesting trip. It sounded so good in theory

all of our family just meeting at DLR to see us. Everyone
said that is what they wanted to do....but when it came down to it, everyone was unhappy about something. When I was planning the places to eat, everyone said, whatever.... But, as we are waiting there was always someone wondering why we were eating here...This is not a good place...you should have made a reservation for over there...blah, blah, blah. Luckily, I am really easy going on vacation and I just laughed it off, but after 1 week it started getting old....
One side of the family was upset because they decided -
in the morning that they were supposed to come - that they just changed their minds and didn't want to mess with traffic and didn't want to go to the resort. They couldn't understand why we wouldn't rent a car and drive over an hour to their house for dinner... On another day, another family member wouldn't come and basically bullied my DH to go to their home to see them. That made me a bit upset

He ended up staying overnight with them due to traffic....
(sig alert and would have made it back to DLR well past midnight that night).
But our kids
LOVED that trip. They saw all of their cousins,aunties, uncles, nanas and grandma and grandpa....It was great. And the photos are the best thing. We actually have pics of just about everyone - together -
and everyone is smiling.
I learned my lesson though. I am
never going to try to mix both sides of the family at the same time. That is just for weddings and funerals...

Every time we have gone down there after that trip, I just assigned a day to each relative and gave them a copy of our plans for that day. They are welcome to join us if they want, but it is up to them.... and, if they want other relatives to come on the same day, it is up to them to coordinate...Not me. LOL...
I am just so glad that we were able to have a long vacation at Disney. We will always have great memories...and some of them are pretty funny - now.
