Ever reconect with someone on Facebook and

[1stluvispooh]

find out there lives are a hug mess. And most of it is not of there doing. Yes I know at some point they have made decisions that have caused things like a divorce but OMG! Reconceted with a high school friend. Oddly enough she was the friend I figured would have a nice life. Find her on facebook only to find out she is divorce and the ex is still giving her problems. She pulls into a parking garage only to have some guy hit her. Someone runs a stop sign and hits her daughter in her car. Now it seems as though she has been fired for no good reason. (a lot of post from co workers lending support and rumor has it the guy who fired her was beat up at a bar for it.) Really I'm just shocked something is always going wrong for her!

 

[MushyMushy]

find out there lives are a hug mess. And most of it is not of there doing. Yes I know at some point they have made decisions that have caused things like a divorce but OMG! Reconceted with a high school friend. Oddly enough she was the friend I figured would have a nice life. Find her on facebook only to find out she is divorce and the ex is still giving her problems. She pulls into a parking garage only to have some guy hit her. Someone runs a stop sign and hits her daughter in her car. Now it seems as though she has been fired for no good reason. (a lot of post from co workers lending support and rumor has it the guy who fired her was beat up at a bar for it.) Really I'm just shocked something is always going wrong for her!

I have a friend like that. Seems like a black cloud of gloom hangs over her head everywhere she goes! 9 times out of 10, her problems are NOT of her making. She's sweet, intelligent, and the absolute most generous and giving person I've ever met in her life. But things around her turn to crap! We reconnected on FB too.

 

[LuvOrlando]

Usually the people standing in the middle of a tornado ALL THE TIME make some contribution to the spin.

 

[lovemygoofy]

It's been my experience that if someone always always has drama and issues going on, they are somehow helping causing it to continue.

I'm a firm believer if you don't like the roller coaster you are on, you need to get off and make a different choice.

 

[HelenePA]

Usually the people standing in the middle of a tornado ALL THE TIME make some contribution to the spin.

It's been my experience that if someone always always has drama and issues going on, they are somehow helping causing it to continue.

I'm a firm believer if you don't like the roller coaster you are on, you need to get off and make a different choice.

Not always For 3 years my life was a HUGE mess.. I had 4 deaths (mom, grandfather, grandmother,dad) a house break in (my dad's house), my dead grandmothers car was stolen crashed and totalled, had a miscarriage and a few other things. There was nothing I could do to prevent any of them. My life sucked... big time. Things are gotten better its been 2 years since someone has died in my family! That hasn't been done in 10 years! Serioulsy.. they were dropping like flies around me

 

[LuvOrlando]

Not always For 3 years my life was a HUGE mess.. I had 4 deaths (mom, grandfather, grandmother,dad) a house break in (my dad's house), my dead grandmothers car was stolen crashed and totalled, had a miscarriage and a few other things. There was nothing I could do to prevent any of them. My life sucked... big time. Things are gotten better its been 2 years since someone has died in my family! That hasn't been done in 10 years! Serioulsy.. they were dropping like flies around me

illness is different, I don't think anyone on earth would put someone struggling with illness into the same category as the sorts who are always in a storm because they like the wind.