My side:
I had worked like crazy all weekend. I worked until 5:00 that day, it rained all day and there were more black clouds loomimg in the sky. My family didn't want to go and I didn't have Barry's cell number with me. I did email him earlier but I emailed it to his old address because I was using my work computer which didn't have an updated address book. I realized this later on and emailed him again.
I didn't mean to hurt Barry's feelings, I never stand people up intentionally. I have attended several meets both from the DIS and AOL. I t was just bad timing, I should have never agreed to meet up that day. I apoligized to Barry already.
Off my soapbox.