......can you recommend some websites where I can do some research on other timeshares - preferably someplace where you can hear some "real world" experiences (not the "everything's perfect" marketing you get from the timeshare websites)?.....
However, we would like an occasional (1X/year) trip to the Caribbean or Hawaii, maybe Mexico (warm, tropical vacations). As you pointed out,
DVC isn't exactly the best choice for that.
Which would you recommend for tropical, North American timeshare that is EASY and somewhat flexible (using at different times of year, trading, managing "points", etc)?
I'm not Dean, but I hope I can chime in here!
TUG (
www.tug2.net) is a great resource, but it can take a while to find the information that you need. I'm setting up a website with timeshare information, and although only part of it is ready, you are welcome to take a look at it if you like. I'm hoping to get some feedback on it! I'm not sure about the rules for posting URLs here, but if you or anyone else would like to see my website, just email or PM me.
As for the locations you are interested in, I'm not aware of any timeshare system with resorts in all three areas (except maybe Royal Holiday Club, and their customer services is notoriously bad.) However, Mexico is a very easy trade, so the best approach would be to buy something that will get you to the Caribbean and Hawaii, and then trade for Mexico.
With timeshares, as with many other things, there is a trade-off between quality, time, and cost. In other words, if you want to stay at a high-quality timeshare, you either have to put in time to get the best deals, or you have to pay a higher price. So, if you want an easy-to-use system, you will probably need to pay more. A Marriott resale week in Aruba or Hawaii would not be particularly cheap, but it would allow you to get both the Caribbean and Hawaii (you'd own at one, and have trade priority into the other.) Trading into Mexico would be no problem.
Starwood (Sheraton/Westin) has excellent properties in Hawaii and the Caribbean, but their system is somewhat less user-friendly than Marriott's, and the price of their Caribbean properties is higher than the Aruba Marriotts.
Bluegreen would cost considerably less than an "island" Marriott, but would probably not provide as high-end of an experience (unless you lucked out and traded into a top-notch resort.) Bluegreen is a flexible system, but that makes it more complicated to learn than the Marriott system.
Wyndham is such a complicated system that I would not recommend it to anyone who wants a simple-to-use timeshare.