Boy this question brought back some forgotten irritation! My DD11 got a tv/dvd player for Christmas from Santa, aka, her Dad. Remarkably she still believes in Santa, but being an only child may have a lot to do with that. Anyway, this was definitely a bone of contention between DH & I on Christmas morning when she opened this gift. He typically does some last minute alone shopping on Christmas Eve and came home with that treasure. It was always something I was against, but luckily so far she hasn't abused the priveledge. She's still a straight A student, and plays select basketball, so it's going ok so far. I never had a tv in my room growing up & didn't think it necessary for her either. MEN!