When my kids were babies and cared for in a private home by a lady who was like a Grandmother to them, I always gave her a small percentage of my annual bonus. I truly felt that without her help providing so much TLC to my kids, I would have not been able to earn that bonus. It was wonderful having someone taking care of my babies and never having to fret if they were o.k. or not. She took care of me and my family, and I felt like I wanted t do the same for her.
My kids are in aftercare now in a childcare facility where there are many teachers and assistants. At the end of the year, I give them each a small gift, or one large gift for the center.