We went with dd. We played in the parks for a few days prior to her checkin. Then, had a nice, peaceful breakfast the morning of checkin. Checkin was at 8:40, took about 5 mins. Drove over to her apt, checked it out, started unpacking the car. She was the first one there. She went to Casting at 9:20ish, we stayed and kept unpacking. She got back about 2 hrs later. Drove to Target, stocked up on paper goods, food and stuff she needed for her room. She had drug testing around 1:30, took about an hour. We said goodbye to her around 3ish. There were two other parents there...so it was about 50/50. She was in a three bedroom apt, so six girls.
Some kids want to go it alone, others have no issue, and welcome, parental help. It's up to each family. There is no wrong way, or right way.