@WishesQueen
Quoting myself because for some reason I keep thinking about you - and I don't even know you at all.

Anyway, if I were in your shoes and GF was my anniversary happy place, I tend to think I would regret not fulfilling my tradition more than changing resorts/dates. But that is me - you do you. Trips are special and it's hard not to worry about them being as close to perfect as possible. The years seem to fly by. So, regardless of how 2023 turns out, 2024 will be here before you know it.
Full disclosure, I am in a different situation. My Disney buddy is my daughter. We are looking forward to another split stay with GF in the future. But this year, we decided to spend the whole week at YC to enjoy more time at Flower and Garden. We never seem to have enough time to sample everything we would like at the booths.