Welp... I thought I was squeaking by on all the drama incorporated with weddings... but alas.... I could not escape its grasp as it sucked the little life out of my tiny bridal heart!
Yeah... I tried to make that the most drama filled sentence possible...
So wayyyy back when last year when I did the majority of my bookings- I had my heart set on a particular photographer. She was awesome and I loved her work. I booked her immediately during our planning session. This was back in November 2010- We worked out a package and we also hashed out a budget and I paid a holding fee for my date and we signed our contract. Good to go right?
Fast Forward to this afternoon...6 MONTHS LATER... SO I get off work and I have a message from my photographer asking to call her at my earliest convenience. So I call- and she greets me, we say our hellos and she is double checking on my date and time and makes sure I did not want a Bridal session or E-pics, so pretty standard- and then.. she drops a HUGE BOMB...


She casually mentions that her best friends decided to get married on.... *drum roll please....* YUP.. you guessed it... 11/11/11. And her husband is in the wedding party and she was asked if she could be the photographer and she insists that she REALLY wants to go to her friend's wedding and she can't miss it.
SO.. she tells me that her two assistants are available and free that day- and would be taking her place as the photographers. She even says she will include a free bridal and e-pics session as well.
Mind you... I booked her a year in advance from my wedding day, and she is NOT cheap.. No mention of a discount off of the invoice.. so I would be paying for HER pictures... that are not being done by her... So my pictures would be by So and So Photography- and So and So WON'T be taking the pictures...
I am completely blind-sided by this.. basically her friend's wedding is more important than mine.
I feel like I am caught between a rock and a hard place. LEGALLY she is obligated to take my pictures- but would I really trust her to do a good job when I know darn well she would rather be somewhere else?
OR If I ask for a substantial discount I am sure the assistants would not be pleased- therefore possibly sabotaging my pictures out of spite.
I feel like my only option is to find another photographer... 6 months before my wedding... on one of the most popular dates of the year...
My Mom is fired up and is suggesting we should seek more than just our returned deposit for inconvenience and breach of contract.
What should I do!?!?

I can't sit on this too long- because if I choose not to use her I need to find another photographer ASAP.