I am just starting to plan our 1st trip to Disney
Me my dw dd 4 and dd 5 will be driving form Texas in June of 08. We are working on saving money now for our trip we don't want to use any of our credit cards to pay for the trip. The way things look now we are going to be able to afford 4 days on property or 8 days off.
We are not at all opposed to staying at super 8, best western type hotels. All we need is a couple of beds in a shower. A pool and small fridge would be great but not required.
The only problems I have thought of yet are -
1. Are we going to spend hours fighting traffic getting in and out of the World?
2. Is our trip going to much less "magical" sating off site?
3. Where is the best area to look for our cheap hotel?
4. Any suggestions on a good hotel to stay at?
5. We would love to have any opinions On Disney or Off Disney?
Thanks
First of all, I would avoid the beds in a shower. Sorry, I couldn't resist.
There's lots of good suggestions already here, but I'm more than happy to submit my thoughts!
I'm from South Florida and I never stayed on-site growing up...and I didn't know what I was missing, which was great! There's your advantage, you guys won't either, especially your daughters. So unless you guys can score a great deal at one of the Value resorts on-property, I would avoid it. There's too many good options off-site to cut your vacation in half just to stay on-site. Personally, the Value resorts don't look too much better than your average Super 8, so they might even be a waste of money for you since you'd being paying up for the same level of stay. The only benefit, besides the large iconic decorations (not for me) is the transportation. But again, you're going to be dealing with the most crowded places at the most crowded time of year...might be worth $11 to get there quickly and comfortably yourself in A/C.
I have a couple recommendations just off-site (and one on-site!) that you might enjoy. Check out the Fairfield Inn in the Marriott Village just off Vineland Rd to the southeast of Disney property. It's a nice, newer hotel with free breakfast included! The breakfast can get a bit hairy (crowds-wise), especially if you must have a self-made belgian waffle (the lines for those are ridiculous! It's a
waffle people!) But if you can get a room around $100 that includes a meal...score! And then you've got maybe a quick 10-15 minute drive to the parks. I say quick because you're already right there by the property. For me, I just take Vineland up to East Buena Vista Drive, take a left and, poof, I'm at Disney World (Downtown Disney to be exact). Then just follow your map to where ever you want to go on-property. No driving through traffic in other towns like Kissimmee to get there.
Another option is the Sheraton Safari, also on Vineland Rd. just outside the "gate" to DTD. This hotel is a bit dated, but also priced right around $100. Not bad for a Sheraton. The staff is wonderful and the hotel has a subtle African Safari theme. It's a poor man's AKL.

And I think they also have a free breakfast buffet.
Finally, check out what the Wyndham Palace has to offer. You're on-property there (I lied, I stayed here once when I was a little kid, and I felt like I was royalty). They frequently offer promotional rates, it's across the street from DTD, and if you get a room facing the parks you can see the fireworks at night. I assume if you're there for 8 days you're not going to be at the fireworks shows every night, so it's a nice little bonus to enjoy with a beer or glass of wine.
Now, after all that, I'll attempt to directly address your questions:
1. Are we going to spend hours fighting traffic getting in and out of the World?
Not in my experience. However, if you don't time your entrance to the park correctly, I'm sure there's a mid-morning back-up to get into the MK parking lot at the payment gate.
2. Is our trip going to much less "magical" sating off site?
As I said, it won't be less magical. You have the advantage of not having been on-sire before, so you won't miss anything.
3. Where is the best area to look for our cheap hotel?
I like the Vineland Rd area just to the east and southeast of the DTD area. For me it seems convenient to be in this area.
4. Any suggestions on a good hotel to stay at?
See above.
5. We would love to have any opinions On Disney or Off Disney?
See above.