And BTW. My husband has been looking at this OLD 3 story house in our area for almost a year (since last fall maybe

) and we can totally not buy a new house. I am just about to pay off the mortgage on this one.

BUT we went by yet again w/ his mom today and then AGAIN w/ his dad. B/C when we took his mom by the guy across the street was all "hey are ya thinkin' of buying the house?" and we said ummmm.... and he said there was usually a door open

to get in. So of course we broke in..

The owners got divorced and he kicked her out and she trashed the place. He just wants out of the mortgage- $174.900 5 bedrooms 4 bath 1.4 acres. Problem is the house was built in 1889. There is a significant amount of wood damage and we suspect maybe some foundation issues. part of the house was an addition and it is a bit obvious but it's in the back so as far as curb appeal, noone knows. The 2nd floor was an apartment w/ it's own stairway in the back and a small kitchen. DH is trying to convince his parents to sell their house and we can take the money from both houses and all move in here. They can live upstairs, they would have a bedroom/ full bath/ small kitchen and nook. There is also a room which was probably the master bed that we would turn into MIL and my design studio...IT IS HUGE!!!! My FIL however is bringing our dillusions down and being all MR. REALISTIC. He's pretty sure we could never afford the reno. even if we all moved in. I'm still dreaming though. B and his mom are looking at the digital pics we took today. They must be dreaming still too
The universe will not allow me to have this house. I know this.
...t.