MinnieForMe
DIS Veteran
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- May 15, 2007
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Good Morning all...Just needed somewhere to write this and I know you all are loving an supportive. My dd7 Gianna is having such a hard time and it is breaking my heart. She has been starting to have alot of tics lately and also many OCD type symptoms. We knew this was a possibility as dh has Tourette Syndrome, but it is much rarer for girls to exhibit the symptoms. She is having major issues with clothing, textures etc which makes daily functioning difficult. She is struggling so much with being different, and it is breaking my heart for her. I think the hardest part for me is that she is so aware of what is going on with her. She told me "I know being different makes me special, but I wish I was regular"
She has struggled her whole life, born a preemie, mild CP, sensory issues, PDD it just seems like once she overcomes something another thing pops up for her. If you all could just remember her in your prayers or send a positive though our way I would really appreciate it. I know there are so many people out there with much more serious problems I feel guilty even writing this but I don't have a great family support system and needed to get it off my chest.Thanks!
I'll say a prayer for her! My son has some mild issues and the best thing we did was encourage him to form a circle of wonderful friends. Maybe, it'll only be one friend or two not a group but having a close friend makes you feel accepted and loved. It makes all the difference especially when you get to the middle school age. Don't be afraid to recruit her teacher to help you pick someone who might become a good friend if you don't know anyone yourself.
As far as clothes, is soft better? I'm thinking some of the organic Hanna Andersons. My son has problems with socks. He can't stand seams but it has gotten so much better with age.
Keep the faith! This too will pass and she'll grow stronger and be a more compassionate, wonderful person thanks to the love and support you give her!