Thanks friends for the support. I did learn 1 new thing finally and that was the connection stitch and that I can place it with nodes. I had the first one going thru the lions face. I also can now insert nodes for adjustments. I think part of the problem is the I am using 8 and I don't see parameters but I did find them.
I bought the Carolyn tutorial on applique but it is still kicking my butt. Learning is harder but I am determined! I don't have my machine yet and won't until next week but I do have the software on the trial version of embird and also PE Design. Design is nearly $9oo

That is more than my machine!!!! So I would like to learn Embird but I will need a year to learn and there is no support where I live. Perhaps Santa will deliver the easier PE Design by Brother since I got the machine early.
PIxeegirl, please PM me as I would love to share anything you have that would help and also a few things I have found to give to you.