lori123
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sigh....
DH and I just sat down and had a "family meeting" about our finances and it aint pretty.
He ran through a long list of things we will have to cut out...
-my once a month cleaning company (because we have 2 big dogs, 2 cats, 2 kids, 2 adults and only 1 adult who cleans)
-tv- we will get the box and try for free tv, but DH is not hopeful that we will have any reception because we live in a hilly area and dont live close enough to the cities where public tv "comes from"
-no restaurants, so no more brunch after church, etc- he said we could keep pizza night.
-no more fabric (except Im allowed to buy fabric for the girl's for Hannah's baby dedication gown)
-no descretionary spending without first discussing.
-no landscaping (again this was something I did because I was the only one doing it- his view is that it can look a little scruffy - but he'll try to mow it)
I'm fine with the cut backs, even though some are pretty drastic, but I wish I heard more from him that he would do more.
My stipulation was that we need to meet once a month to discuss our financial progress.
I realize this is totally personal, but Im a little disheartened a the moment and looking for a cheering sqad.
I actually kinda feel like maybe God brought us to this place, because for years I have begged DH to watch less TV so I could have more of him, for the little amount of time I see him in the evenings and now he will have no choice- until now he was not willing to cancel the direct tv, so even though it will be really hard for me if we dont at least get PBS, I think it will bring our family together.
Feel free to help me find the bright side of this! I'm feeling a little down right now.
and all outfits I make will be from fabric I already own- so I guess that means clothes without much for coordinating fabrics. Im happy I have that cinderella fabric sitting in my stash to make her dress for Halloween!
Big ((HUGS))!!
We have had many ups and downs financially and it just made us stronger! We've done the no eating out, no cable, no cell phones (gasp), etc. I think if you can embrace this you can turn it into something positive for all of you! Simpler times with the family - more fun game nights, and just enjoying each other! I commend you for making those changes - there are many who would try and keep up with their same lifestyle and just go deeper and deeper.