We had great servers, so that was not an issue for us.
My parents sailed with us for the first time on the 8/25 sailing, AKA The Irene Sailing....we felt the 3 night cruise was horrible....however, my parents thought it was absolutely wonderful. They had no expectations going in, loved the shows, as I said, we had GREAT dining room servers, and a great room steward, they had no interest in the pools so that wasn't an issue for them. We felt the lack of accurate information regarding ports, times, etc. was inexcusable, and stopping in Nassau twice was the killer for us.
I think the more time you spend on these boards and the more preparation you do, your expectations continually climb. It seems as though so many people are expecting pure perfection and being disappointed when they don't receive it.
I also think we need to remember that the Dream is new and there are going to be kinks that need to be worked out.
With all of that said, we really did not like the size of the Dream and the number of people, so we will likely only look for sailings on the smaller ships in the future.