I have read it can be very crowded on the weekends. I do not remember it being overly crowded when we went in 2008. Maybe we were lucky. We were there for 6 nights. On Sunday we did the RFTC and ate brunch on the BW with Sha, her mom, Ann and her sisters.
My sister and her DH thought it was very crowded last year in early November. she was in a
scooter and was very frustrated with the busses. They avoided F&W after the first day.
I have ADRs away from Epcot next weekend to avoid the crowds and will go to F&W Thursday, Friday early perhap and Monday.