We like Deluxe. We do character breakfast or early lunch and then do a signature meal for dinner. If give us forced down time for everyone and give mommy and daddy good food for dinner with better choices for the kids. That being said, don't forget that with the deluxe plan, comes more ADr, moreTS therefor more tips to pay and lots and lots of food. try to plan your meals at times where you know you own't have to run from one event to the other.
For exemple we do early ADR at parks or close to parks to be at the parks for rope drop, we go back to POR for afternoon break and then our dinner is usually between the resort time and our return to the park. I would hate to have an ADR in the smack middle and have to drop everything to run to an ADR KWIM. Also be prepared to not use your snack other then drinks or for take home stuff LOL