My daughter is a foster mom - and a darn good one. The system itself is horrible sometimes, but the kids my daughter had for a year went to a great school, had gymnastics lessons (which they were offered for free when they were placed in a kinship home, but the grandma wouldn't take them there) and were loved. I still miss them. They came up here to visit right before they were given to the kinship home. I taught one of them to read, when she was 5 years old. Smart kids with a dumb mother, IMO. I wish my daughter still had them - they'd have a whole different outlook on life if they were with her.