Grooms cakes are just for fun and because the couple usually doesn't get more than a bite of their real cake on the wedding night (they're too busy). We had a groom's cake for the reception following our rehersal. DH was allowed to do whatever he wanted with it, an I highly approved of his choice. It was in the colors of the college that we, and all four of our biological parents attended. The cake was even swirled with these colors inside. Then, since we were having classy looking flowers on top of our real wedding cake, we had a cheesy topper for the groom's cake. It was a bride strangling her husband-to-be...it was perfect for us...the couple even looked like us.