I know what you mean Tia. I will be celebrating my 23rd anniversary while at WDW, W/O my DH. He knew that I had been saving for a trip to WDW for about two years. I had made plans on when I was going, only to keep changing them out of indecision and frustration on realizing that I still didn't have enough $$ saved.
The DIS Con came along and it sounded like such a really cool thing to do, so I jumped on the band wagon from the beginning. I knew that it was one way of keeping me on track and not changing my mind again. For our anniversary, my DH gave me a few extra days. He won't fly, (that was even before the 9-11 attacks) and has graciously volunteered to stay home with the boys, while I take the girls and have a wonderful time.
My 13 year old foster daughter has dreamed of going to WDW (every child's dream I think) from the day that she seen our pictures from the two trips that my son had won. There are only three things that she has really really wanted to wish for. One was to have seen her grandmother who lived in Michigan, (she passed away last year), find a lifelong friend that she never had the chance to say good-bye to nearly five years ago, (this bothers her still today and she talks about this girl at least once a week) and then to go to WDW.
Since we do not normally have the $$ to take such a trip like this, I know that it will be a once in a lifetime trip for her. I want to give her all the magic that I can afford, and memories that can NEVER be taken away from her. Her life has been such a roller coaster and she never had anything much before she came to live with us. Well, actually she did, she had many "toys', only to have them a short time till the parents needed them to pawn for $$ to buy drugs, or till they were left behind when they had to moved in the middle of the night to get away from the law and creditors. She sometimes lived out of the family's car, (when they owned one) and a month before the kids were taken into custody, they were without a vehicle when her mother went into labor with her baby sister. The family walked nearly two miles to the hospital. (what a memory she has about that) When the mother and new baby returned home from their hospital stay, it was my FD who took care of the baby, even though my FD was only 9 at the time. God does perform miracles, he stepped in and the kids were rescued. I know find that I want to give her things that no one can ever take away, move away from or loose. I can't give her a visit to her grandmother, and I haven't a clue as to how to find her friend. But her memories of WDW will be something that I know she will never forget, nor will she forget the people that gave them to her.