Hi! My family of 5 (DS9, DD6, DS4) always does the deluxe plan and we love it! In fact, we usually stay in a value resort and splurge on the food!
Deluxe works well for us because my kids like to eat "real food" and they were really bored by the limited choices on the kids menus at Disney. (NO MORE MEATY MACARONI PLEASE!)
So, with the deluxe, we can order appetizers some of the time and the kids get to share them with us. We also do alot of buffets so they can choose whatever they want and try new things as well!
I think the choice comes down to what matters most to you on vacation. I love Disney, but I don't just go for the rides. I also go for the food. In my mind, a good vacation is one where I enjoyed everything! I honestly hate dealing with the lines & crowds at the CS restaurants...so I rarely go to them.
Also, you have to consider the length of your trip. We usually go for at least 7 days. If you are going for a short trip, I think you might spend too much time in restaurants if you go Deluxe. And then you'll feel like you missed out on too many attractions.
One more thing- my kids are still all young enough that we pay for 3 kids dining plans. It will be MUCH more expensive when they are older and we have to get the Deluxe Adult Plan for Five! So, be sure to consider the ages of your group!
Hope this helps!
