So the new psychiatrist prescribed abilify to help w DD's anxiety. She takes zoloft in the a.m. And is supposed to take this at bedtime. She has always been resistant to any medicine- even Tylenol when she has a fever or headache. Recently she has been taking Tylenol or motrin though. She Does Not want to take the abilify. She is afraid it is going to make her feel sick. We were to just keep talking abt the positives of taking it and see if she will change her mind. She hasn't. She is so anxious that she still has a hard time going to tutoring and is already upset with me because she has a psychiatrist appt tomorrow and I had to change the time of her riding lesson. She wants to go at her regular time. She keeps saying she doesn't want or need help. I told her we all can't keep living like this. My mom has arranged things so she can stay here during the week and we're all making accommodations to help DD. She is adamant abt not getting help and not taking the medicine. I just dont know what to do. DH said we're going to have to start taking things away until she agrees to take it. The psych said something similar. If we do that everyones life is going to be miserable. I wouldn't want DD9 to be here when that happens bcs she is already having a hard time when DD12 gets upset. Any advice?