OT but...
If you want a horse and buggy for your birthday, I'm assuming you may have been to the Lancaster area a few times???
We go often (only live about an hour and a half away) but don't often stay over night. Have you ever stayed at Kitchen Kettle Village? The reviews look good, and we love shopping there. Just thought I'd ask in case you had! I'm thinking about booking it for October.
I wouldn't mind an Amish buggy either, but I'm OK with settling for lunch at Dieners, a ride at Abe's, and a spooky night at Dutch Wonderland (with my kiddo's!) Amish Country is what I will miss the most when we move from the East Coast!