No they know I am hanging out with him but she assumed (and it was at first) just a friends. He & I meet because he was a customer at the Ale House I worked. When it closed he asked me to let him the next time I went to another local brewery. After the first meeting we started hanging out more & more and developed a genuine friendship. After awhile it became clear he wanted more than just a friendship and eventually that developed. Neither of us really know what is going on. We don't get much time together to really develop things into more. Thank you. I know there isn't a right answer. Just opinions. I don't know if he will be my "happily ever after" or not. I would like it to become more but that is not in the cards right now, due to his family obligations (he takes care of his ailing mother). Right now I am just trying to be okay with what time we do get and see what happens. True, I was not completely honest with her. I didn't come home and say "M" kissed me today. Or I think "M" & I are more than friends. But it is hard to give her more information when he & I aren't even sure what is "it" is we are doing. I have never stayed out overnight Our time together is usually pretty short and ends pretty early but I do agree. If I was to stay out overnight (with him or with anyone or no one) I would let them know. I would also let them know in advance if he or anyone else was coming over or staying the night.