Skip sounds like my George.
George recognizes that the free dining is the best discount for our family of five, but at full rack room rate prices he's always quick to say it's not really free dining, they're just getting our money through the rooms instead. Sigh!
I'm with you on the timeshare non option too. It's just not the same for us as staying on property and we've ruled it out of ways to cut costs. Too many perks are lost.
I've read a few TRs that went to WWoHP and while I'm dying to go there, I'm glad we opted against it this trip. It'll be a few years before we get there too.
I really hope you get to go in March!