Crazy Griever Update No. 5

[tc]

Here's one of your multitude of friends checking in. You and your girls have been on my prayer list since your first post. I will continue to pray for healing for you and your family.

HUGS!!!

 

[browneyes]

Your children are blessed to have you as their mom.

 

[shamrock bunch]

You will be a great role model for your kids. You have so much strength. I have 2 young kids and couldn't imagine going through what you have. You have shown everyone that you can work through this w/ the help of friends.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Hugs, Vicki!!

I don't recall having any...why me...why us...questions. What got to me was seeing older couples and senior citizens with spouses!! That angered me sooooooooooooooooooooooo much. I guess in a way I did have those questions. Whenever I saw senior couples I always thought...why do they still have each other and we don't?!!!!! Major anger over that!! Then one day it dawned on me that they aren't all married for years and years. Some probably lost spouses and later in life married this person they're with. It's difficult. Lonliness is a killer for me. It would be so nice to have someone here for company, a shoulder to lean on, to get even the simplest compliment from! Sometimes people I know are amazed at the tiniest little thing I thank them for!!! A tiny little thing someone does for me means a lot when I'm used to doing EVERYTHING myself!!

 

[nativetxn]

{{{HUGS}}} Vicki. I wish I could find the words to offer comfort to you but those words don't exist. I'm sending you a pm.

 

[WilmaBud]

God bless you and your children Vicki. You are, indeed, so eloquent - your words touch my heart. I know God will continue to give you the strength you need. I'm sorry this is a particularly lonely and hard time for you. {{{Hugs}}}

 

[KIRSTIN'S MOMMY]

I'm so glad that you checked in with us. I've been thinking of you. You will get through today and every other day, one at a time. You are one strong lady. I admire that. Your girls are lucky to have such a great mom.

 

[Otto's Doll]

So sorry that you have to go through this. I will pray that you will find comfort in your precious memories, and peace in the love that surrounds you still.

 

[newmousecateer]

Sending you all {{HUGS}} Vicki. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. You will always be able to find comfort here.

 

[CRB#33]

Hugs and prayers to you and your children Vicki, during this oh, so difficult time.

Take care and know that your tag is true.

 

[helenabear]

All my best to you and your family

 

[Breezy_Carol]

{{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Vicki. I am always glad to see you check in. I expect this will be the beginning of some hard months. I will pray for strength for you and your girls to get through each day.

 

[binny]

(((hugs))) to you, as always you are in our prayers.

 

[PRINCESS VIJA]

I wish I could do or say something to help ease your burden and sense of loss. I will offer up a prayer for a special angel to wrap you in a comforting hug, and help guide you through this. Blessing to all of you.

 

[Planogirl]

I can't imagine what you're dealing with but I can see that it must be overwhelming at times. I have no advice to offer but I do want to tell you how much I admire how well you're handling this. And I also want to offer a hug.

 

[CourtasanSatine]

 

[poohandwendy]

Thanks for the update, I've been wondering how you and the kids have been holding up. IMO, it sounds like you are doing as expected (if not even better in some respects) for a sudden loss at a young age. I imagine it is really lonely, have you looked into grief support groups? It helped my mom when she needed it, and she is still friends with a few of the women she met (14 yrs later). Some of them, she ended up having nothing in common with after time, but a few of them really grew together.

I remember when she first went, there were many people much older than her, this sort of turned her off at first (she felt like she didn't belong). But she stuck with it and found that many of the 'older crowd' shared the same feelings that she did. They had different circumstances and life experiences, but that was a good thing in many ways. It also gave her time for adult interaction, got her out of the house. Just a thought.

Continued thoughts and prayers for you and your family.