Yes, I think we've settled on the Sonoma Room @ California Grill. I was really in love with Yachtsman as we wanted all of our events near Epcot. BUT... our wedding day also happens to be my 30th birthday so I wanted something extra special for our dinner. I hope we like the food because we have never eaten at California Grill.
Citrico's was extremely helpful when I called. We were looking at the Chef's Domain, but it only seats 12. Victoria & Albert's was also helpful, but I don't know how they would feel about taking the children in our party there.
Best of luck! Let us know what you decide.