Child arrested after opening Christmas present

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Child Arrested After Opening Holiday Gift Early

POSTED: 12:26 pm EST December 5, 2006
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What is the penalty for opening your Christmas presents too early?

For one South Carolina 12-year-old, the penalty was arrest.

A Rock Hill, S.C., woman called police and asked them to arrest her son who opened a Christmas present early after being told not to, the Rock Hill Herald reported. Police went to the house and arrested the boy and charged him with petty larceny.

The paper reported that the boy's great-grandmother had specifically told him not to open his present, which contained a Nintendo Game Boy Advance. It was wrapped and lying under the Christmas tree, the police report stated.

But on Sunday morning, the gift was unwrapped and the box was empty. So when the boy's mother found out, she alerted police, the paper reported.

"He took it without permission. He wanted it. He just took it," said the 63-year-old great-grandmother told the Herald.

The women said that the boy lied to them at first, saying he was unaware of where the video game system was. After threat of calling the police, the boy apparently gave the toy back to his mother, the paper reported. But the upset mother called police anyway.

Two officers responded and charged the child as a juvenile with petty larceny, although he was not jailed.

The mother told the Herald that she didn't know what else to do with her son, so she called police. The paper reported she is a single mother and has been struggling with constant behavior problems from the boy. She said her son still showed no remorse when the police came.

"I'm trying to get him some kind of help," the 27-year-old mother told the paper. "He's the type of kid who doesn't believe anything until it happens."

She said he has shoplifted, stolen money from her, punched a police officer and is nearing expulsion from school. She told the paper that she hopes this arrest will be a wake-up call for her son, because she worries about getting a call someday telling her he's been killed.

The mother plans to have her son placed with the state Department of Juvenile Justice in Columbia at his court appearance, the Herald reported.
 
I'm sure I'll get flamed for this but good for her :thumbsup2
 
How about since he took it after being told not to, just return the game system to the store.

ETA: I read that a little too quickly. After all the trouble the kid has gotten into at TWELVE, good for mom!!!
 
I also say good for her! My brother was like this when I was younger. It's stressful for the whole family. He's in the army now and his behavior is better but he still lies about everything. I hope this helps the boy straighten up!
 

Maybe this will help her be able to get the help for him that is so badly needed.
 
Maybe it's just me, but at 12 if 'he has shoplifted, stolen money from her, punched a police officer and is nearing expulsion from school' I wouldn't have purchased the nintendo for him in the first place.
 
When I first started reading, I thought it was a little extreme. Then, I got to the final part of the article where it states that the boy has serious behavior problems. :sad2: :sad2: He is 12 years old and has already punched a police officer? :sad2: :sad2:
 
Duckfan-in-Chicago said:
Maybe it's just me, but at 12 if 'he has shoplifted, stolen money from her, punched a police officer and is nearing expulsion from school' I wouldn't have purchased the nintendo for him in the first place.
Very true. I agree.
 
RitaZ. said:
When I first started reading, I thought it was a little extreme. Then, I got to the final part of the article where it states that the boy has serious behavior problems. :sad2: :sad2: He is 12 years old and has already punched a police officer? :sad2: :sad2:

::yes:: I would never agree with this without all the other troubling information.
 
RitaZ. said:
Originally Posted by Duckfan-in-Chicago
I wouldn't have purchased the nintendo for him in the first place.

dang straight.

But I still have a problem with the police getting involved over what is totally a domestic dispute. This is a horrible situation this 27 year old mom of a 12 year old finds herself in. She won't be able to call the police to back her up everytime she tries to impose discipline, so basically, she's done as a parent...she's surrendered her parental authority to the police, at least as far as the kid is concerned. Vicious cycle in progress.
 
ITA good for her. I truly hope he will get the help he needs so desperately!
 
There are actually four generations in the house. The great-grandmother is 63. The kids mother is 27. That means she was 15 when she had him. That puts 36 years between the mother and grandmother--we're talking about babies having babies. More than a little dysfunction going on there. It sounds like some bad parenting, bad role models. How do you expect the kid to know how to behave if he doesn't have a positive role model?

I actually hope that rather than putting the kid in jail, the court imposes strictly supervised probation with counseling and orders parenting classes for the mother. Putting a kid like that in jail is only going to make him into a career criminal.

Anne
 
Reading it at first, I thought the mother went way too far and was off her rocker. But as I got to the end, I understood why she did it. Way to go Mom :thumbsup2 !
 
Duckfan-in-Chicago said:
Maybe it's just me, but at 12 if 'he has shoplifted, stolen money from her, punched a police officer and is nearing expulsion from school' I wouldn't have purchased the nintendo for him in the first place.

I agree.
 
Duckfan-in-Chicago said:
Maybe it's just me, but at 12 if 'he has shoplifted, stolen money from her, punched a police officer and is nearing expulsion from school' I wouldn't have purchased the nintendo for him in the first place.
:thumbsup2 You beat me to it.

12 year old boy, 27 year old mother, 63 year old great-grandmother. hhmmm
 
Too me, I see it as "baiting" the child.

Leaving a wrapped present under a tree when you know the child is "in trouble" is creating a hostile environment and poor parenting in my book.

The fact he needs help is seperate and perhaps they did this so he could get help.:confused3
 
Now it's my turn to get flamed. I work for a juvenile probation department. We see plenty of parents wanting the probation officers to do their job for them. I say they should return the present to the store - not clog up the system.
 


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