Hi Cass!
Glad I found your thread!

I am just starting but wanted to stop and say a few things:
Kira must get her cues from Amelia. I just don't know what to do about the attitude!!!
She just cuter and cuter with every picture I see of her!
I really wish we were cruising with you guys.
Glad you got a C.A.R.E.S. -- we love ours!
Ernie just started to refuse a nap, too. Ugh! Weird enough, although neither of my kids were ever big on sleeping in their strollers (only as infants), they each would at some point fall asleep in their stroller in Disney! Maybe you'll have the same luck and she'll get some down time. But I think going back to your resort in the afternoon and getting away from the action and noise would be enough to calm her down for a bit. You might want to consider sticking with that. Then she can have some quiet and play with her toys. It does a world of good.
Amelia didn't train until she was about 2 1/2. Ernie started going before he turned two but has recently refused to do it.

I'm not going to push him at all....it will happen when they are ready. When he's mature enough to understand decisions like "if you do
this then you can have
this, then we will start working harder at it. That worked for Amelia. For now we still sit him on it but not too much happens.