I am exactly the same way. Having something in your stomach seems to be the exact wrong thing to do but works for me!
I so sucked at flower and garden this year. I only had a few things and totally missed that they were serving lobster tail!
We used to really like Tiffins, but the last few trips have been disappointed for us. It seems they are trying to draw in more people and changing the food to fit the palates of the masses. Its still good, but not as good as it was at the beginning. You can order their appetizers at Nomads lounge which is a fun way to try it without going all in.
Not sure where else you have/haven't been, but Jiko and Sanaa are always at the top of our lists. I'd also consider Jaleo in Disney Springs. We have one here in DC and its always great and fun to share all the tapas.