Obi-Wan Pinobi said:I can tell you who destroyed Lauri's self esteem when it comes to her artwork.
She was married once before I met her. She married her high school sweetheart and somewhere along the 10 yr marriage he became very abusive to her both mentally and physically.
He made a special effort to make sure he took away any ounce of pleasure she got from her artwork and to make her feel like it didn't even deserve the paper it was drawn or painted on.
The straw that broke the camel's back was the day Lauri did the painting below - she loved to paint wolves because she thinks they are beautiful and have such soulful eyes. She had scanned the painting into her computer to have a copy and had it on the screen. He knew damn good and well she painted it because 1) the subject matter 2)she still had the paints out and 3) umm.. she signed it. He took one look at it and said "Who painted that? That is horrendous. Whoever painted that sucks."
Lauri has not picked up a paint brush since that day and that was 1998. I've gotten her to pick up her pencils again - but I don't know if I can get her painting.
Anyway - here is the painting that her ex said was so hideous:
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dvcfamily41801 said:That story just makes me![]()
When I saw this picture, I got goose bumps! I would be proud to have one of her drawings hanging on my wall!Obi-Wan Pinobi said:
Obi-Wan Pinobi said:Okay, DW MeanLaureen used to do a lot of drawing and painting before she got sick 6 yrs ago. She hasn't picked up a pencil and drawn in quite some time due to the pain in her hands - she even has difficulty writing.
She was wondering the other day if she could still draw. She used to do portaits of people's dogs for them and had even done a portrait of the author Patricia Cornwell's 2 Dacshunds.
Since she loves to draw dogs she thought that a good subject matter to try out would be one of the many adorable signature pictures of DISer's dogs.
Unfortunately Lauri, who is very hard on herself, isn't happy with how the picture turned out and is sure it is horrible and beyond recognition. She thinks that the AOSD has destroyed her ability to recreate images with accuracy. I think she is just being really hard on herself, especially since this is her first attempt to draw in years. She thinks I'm lying to her to be nice and not hurt her feelings.
So, I made a bet with her. I'm posting the drawing to see if anyone can recognize which DIS dog this is. If you can't, I lose and I have to shave off my mustache![]()
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(man she nags me to get rid of that thing!)
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Here you go... guess that DIS dog. Please? LOL
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