Can someone give me advicee?

[Justinex3]

Hai all you disers out there =]
i need some advice about a boy situation.
if you guys like actually respond to this ill tell you guys whats been going on, cause i need help& i thought you peeps would be the bets to turn to.
Cause you guys&gals purty much rock =]
byee<3 & thanks if you write back

 

[wdwllamadancer]

whats the problem?

 

[Justinex3]

okay.
its purty long.
I became really close with my friend "erick"
we started hanging out over the summer and everything was great, we both liked each other, but i still like my ex ricky, so we never went out.
than i got over ricky but me and erick decided that it would prob. be better to stay bestfriends. we continued to be besties& everything was good& he started liking my best friend. and i really didnt care i mean i was jelous but i was getting over it.
Then eventually after he was done with her and liked this girl gabby i started liking his stepbrother matt. the whole time before me and matt were gunna o out, erick advised me not to. i just thought he was jelous and ignored his opinion but we were still pretty tight. me & matt went out and erick and me never hung out. i think matt told him not to hangout with me but whatever. eventually me and matt broke up & now neither of them will talk to me. i thought erick was my bestfriend & now whenever i ask him to hangout hes to busy and he doesnt answer my IM's. I think im getting feelings for erick again, & its getting me like really upset and i miss my bestie.

idk if i should just like IM him telling him how i feel or what?
so does anyone have advice about this pleasee :l

 

[wdwllamadancer]

hm thats a tough situation. i would probably talk to erick about everything that happened and how he sees it nd how he feels and stuff. i would wait a bit though to see if anyone else posts.

 

[Justinex3]

yeah, ill wait for everyone's advice,
thanks oober mucho.
i know i can always count on you guys

 

[HouseMD1120]

I would also try to talk to him. If he doesnt answer your IMs, call him or try to find time at school to talk to him alone. He's probably just upset that you picked his stepbrother over him, but he will probably resume his normal mindset.

Hope it gets better

 

[life of the party]

I'm gonna be honest, i would ignore you too.

You went out with his step brother, and ignored his advice.

You werent being a very good friend to him, why should he be a good friend to you?

Anyway, you should try to talk to him in person.
And try to listen to him, and everyone who tries to give you advice in the future.


Good luck

 

[Justinex3]

hi everyone,
your advice is great.

& yeah like the girl said before, i would have ignored me too.
but the thing was he asked out my bestfriend. than he basically told me like flat out that he didn't like me and he had moved on and wanted to go out with this girl gabby, i took that as that gave me permission to move on too.
so yeah, i really don't wanna sound like a snob on here, cause im not at all.
truthfully, my life right now sucks because of this situation and another situation with his step. ): i just reli need support right now. thanks guys

 

[HouseMD1120]

awww... we're hear for you.

 

[Cinderelli16]

I'm gonna be honest, i would ignore you too.

You went out with his step brother, and ignored his advice.

You werent being a very good friend to him, why should he be a good friend to you?

Anyway, you should try to talk to him in person.
And try to listen to him, and everyone who tries to give you advice in the future.


Good luck

Exactly what I was going to say.

 

[Justinex3]

thanks guys.
:]