Just catching up here on your last couple updates! I had a chance to tour the Grand Floridian during my recent visit and it surprised me a bit too - I liked it more than I ever thought I would from pictures. Your rate was INCREDIBLE! So glad you took the plunge! I'm really looking forward to the V&A review!
As for deserving the trip, yes you do! Even if you haven't followed through with your vows, you deserve it. And there is still hope for the house - maybe just focus on one instead of it all, and it will seem less daunting? Pick the junk drawer, since it's the smallest space! But maybe it will start an organization spree!
As for the weight - I understand! I battled the same thing after having Henry and still struggle with 10 pounds that I'd love to lose, but always sneak back quickly. Post Disney is an excellent time to start! Do you plan on doing a certain program? I LOVE WeightWatchers since it lets you still indulge and truly teaches balance. You can do it!!!
Brook - first off, thank you so much for mailing the Disney postcard to my kids! It arrived Thursday and was mighty exciting!!! Let me know if I can return the favor for Henry when we will be there in Oct...maybe just a "Hope you enjoyed your trip, and can't wait for you to return" variety.
Yes - you are right. It was a really wise decision to book the GF for our last nite. When else am I going to stay there for $175/nite, and it taught me that I love staying at WDW's flagship resort...score one for Disney. They always get us.
Thanks for the motivation/how-to tips. Sometimes it really can be overwhelming, but accomplishment of getting thru one task can really motivate you along to the next. I am hoping to put that into practice today!
How funny you mention WW...I have had this recommended by so many people. Probably worth me checking out when I get back as you suggest...I have no intention counting points on vacation!
Trish - You DO deserve this trip!
If you need some support for weight loss, I'm hanging out here with two or three others...
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2572357&page=13
And as for using the camera in manual mode, I've been hanging out on the photoboard and been playing on the photo scavenger hunts run by Pea-n-Me. For me, it's been a great and fun way of getting into the habit of taking shots and also to move into manual mode shooting. It's also great seeing how other photographers are shooting the same category.
I will warn you that it is expensive hanging out on that sub-forum because I now have a couple of lenses that I don't even want to think how much I spent on.
This year's summer scavenger hunt is about to finish but there should be one for winter. Hope to see you there posting like the rest of us photonuts
Love the tips about the photo board! I actually purchased a lifetime membership quite awhile ago on Clickinmoms, but haven't been there in ages. This is going to be a huge priority for me once I get the other things (fitness, diet, and clean, streamlined clutter-free house) in order. Hopefully over the Christmas holidays I can spend some time starting this again and finally finishing Bryan Peterson's Understanding Exposure.
Thanks Christine!

I assure you that I won't be pulling the plug on the trip, but on the same hand, I also feel that we all have to pull our weight, and live the best lives we can, and sadly I haven't been doing my part. I would have felt so much better if I could have celebrated accomplishing the 3 goals I had set for myself, but instead, I just feel very guilty that I didn't, and as a result, more than a little undeserving of a vacation.
However, I will try not to dwell on that on vacation, and will definitely have a Grey Goose slushie for you, and warm things up for your arrival!
Wow, you are a month away! Don't be so hard on yourself. I am sure in a month you can figure out your camera. All you need is a day to spend learning all of the different modes. I am sure that you can get some of your organizing done before the trip. You don't have to do all of it. As for the weight loss, I am always torturing myself with it. Even though we are leaving in a week and a half, I am still going to try to lose a pound before we go if it kills me. After this weekend's hurricane I have no excuses for eating junk! Just hang in there, everything will work out!
Hey Andrea...I am guessing you are actually away on holidays right now...hope you are having a blast!
Unfortunately I suspect it will take me the better part of a year or more to really start to feel comfortable shooting in manual, so this trip I will have to be content in the auto modes. Typically you end up shooting far worse when learning manual before you start to get better, and I certainly don't want to experiment on the trip!

However, it is high on the to-do list when I get back.
OMG it sounds like I wrote that post! Im 32 days away from my trip and having the same feelings! Except for the camera part (I stick with my Cannon Elph!) I vowed to have my house in pristine order when I left. The clutter cleared, and the closets organized. Luckily I had house guests last weekend so I did get it looking slightly better. But there is still a lot of stuff shoved in the closets/drawers that desperately need sorting and purging! I also have a bunch of projects at work that I was hoping to have completed so I dont stress out about them while Im away. Ugg.
And the weight thing. I too lost all my pregnancy weight with #1 within weeks of delivering. Of course I thought it would be no problem when my daughter came along. Well, unfortunately I never lost all of it and in the last few years I gained another 10 lbs!

Im also turning 40 in February and I really want this weight off of me. Since its too late to lose it all Im trying to also drop 8-10 lbs before I go. Im walking or hiking an hour each day and/or running 30 minutes each morning. And Im cutting out all the junk food and only eating healthy foods. So far I have lost a few lbs. so I did make a little progress! We are also taking a 4 day cruise on the Dream so that means extra bathing suit time for me! Yikes!
So with a month to go, we CAN make progress. Maybe we wont reach the perfection we both strive for but I think if we get some of our projects done and lose some weight we will both feel ok about it! Good luck and stay motivated!!!
Oh, thank you so much for posting that, and letting me know I am not alone!

Good for you for starting to get organized, and taking some huge steps on the exercise/weight loss front. You are definitely far ahead of me. Personally, I don't know what I feel worse about...the added weight and clutter, or the fact that I continue to break promises to myself to get these taken care of for once and for all.
