The thing with ABS are that you can have a firm 6-pack underneat the fat, but until you loose the fat they will never come through. You can't spot reduce the fat on your stomach, so you have to do cardio and eat less to get rid of the fat. In the meantime, you can definately get those abs in shape. I was read from one of the ladies who leads the FIRM video's that you can do 10 minutes of abs each day without worrying about overtraining those muscles. Find a few 10 minute ab routines that work different muscles and do those for 10 minutes each day. I know the FIRM has a few AB video's. The one I am looking at has 3 10 minute ab workouts. There is also an older one, before the infomercials that is called 5 day abs.
I sure hope that someday I can have good abs. I did a 30 minute cardio today, and then did the end of another one of my dvd's that had ab work included. I hope I don't end up with stretched skin. Maybe doing the ab work will help.
Good luck, you can do it. Maybe we should start a daily 10 minute Ab challenge! Those challenge/check in's really work.
Good luck! You can do it!